MAKE SENSE OF YOURSELF. MAKE SENSE OF OTHERS. GET ALONG BETTER.
For anyone ready to experience what happens when behavior makes sense.
When behavior makes sense, relationships get easier, life becomes lighter and you feel empowered every day.
Ever wonder why you do what you do? Or why other people do what they do?
We all have moments when our own behavior or someone else's simply doesn't make sense.
Maybe you're tired of repeating the same conversations, frustrated by differences, questioning your own decisions, or just curious about what makes you, you.
What if the missing piece isn't more effort, but more understanding?
I bring a different perspective to the way we naturally think, act, and relate so everyday life and relationships begin to make more sense.
Different doesn’t mean wrong.
It means we all have our own Personal Process
expressed through our own Behavior Language
and serves as the foundation to Self Intelligence.
Discover your Personal Process
No two people experience life in exactly the same way.
My 128 question Personal Process Assessment explores the way you naturally think, act, relate, and respond to life.
It isn't designed to put you into a category, give you labels or tell you what kind of person you are. It reveals how your individual patterns work together, what serves you well, what may not, and why.
Your results become the foundation for a Personalized Interpretation Conversation, where we make sense of what those patterns look like in your everyday life.
And often, discovering your own Personal Process sparks curiosity about someone else's. A spouse, partner, family member, friend, or colleague who experiences life a little differently than you do.
That's where Behavior Language Translation comes in. Exploring how your individual processes interact, where they naturally complement one another, and why you sometimes seem to speak entirely different languages.
Virtual nationwide - In person in Ohio
Understanding that goes beyond the assessment
Personal Process Interpretation
A one-on-one conversation focused on understanding how you naturally operate
Fluency Conversations
Apply your insights to real situtaions, relationships, decisions and life transitions
Behavior Language Translation
Explore how 2-4 people’s different processes interact, complement, and sometimes frustrate each other
Teams & Organizations
Make sense of human dynamics influencing collaboration, communication and leadership
But what if…?
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You probably do and that means you are exactly who this is for. But knowing yourself and understanding why you naturally think, act and relate the way you do aren’t always the same thing. Sometimes a new perspective reveals something you’ve never considered.
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Even better. Understanding yourself and others isn’t just for solving problems. It’s also for making decisions, navigating changes. strengthening relationships and making more of what already serves you well while being mindful of what may not.
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This isn’t about fixing yourself or someone else. It’s about better understanding differences, recognizing what works and what doesn’t, and discovering new ways deal with everyday frustration, irritation and annoyance so they don’t turn into resentment, unnecessary conflict and relationship breakdown.
Hi, I’m Elle
I’m the creator of the Personal Process Assessment, the Behavior Language concept and the Self Intelligence Principles.
My work grew from my own experiences navigating relationships, motherhood, life transitions, solopreneurship and an innate curiosity about why people can experience the same circumstances so differently.
Today, I work with individuals, couples, families, and organizations through personal conversations, workshops and speaking engagements, bringing insights and perspective to the conversations that matter.
My role isn’t to tell you who to become. It’s to make sense of who you already are and how you relate to the world around you.
Trusted by individuals, couples, and leadership teams seeking stronger communication and alignment.
“I wish I would have known this 15 years ago.”
“Thank you for the permission I didn’t even realize I needed to be myself and let go of the expectations I have created.”
“We refer to our processes all the time now and it really helps keep perspective especially when emotions start to run high.”
“I can’t believe how much better we get along now.”
Executive & Leadership Teams
Team Building & Onboarding
Individual & Team Consulting
Human Resources & Program Directors
Athletic Department & Coaching Staff
Personal & Professional Guidance
A little perspective for every chapter in life
My books, journals, and Self Intelligence Principles Cards offer different ways to explore the ideas behind Feel Empowered Every Day from understanding yourself and others to navigating relationships, reflecting on experiences, and appreciating the many chapters of life.
A collection of my perspectives, your reflections, and practical resources for navigating life's many experiences and relationships.
Select one of the 78 cards at random for a fresh perspective, a moment of reflection, or a meaningful conversation.
A little inspiration for making more sense of life
Through the Make It Make Sense podcast and the Stream with Hart blog, we explore everyday experiences, thought-provoking questions, personal reflections, and worthwhile resources. Stream with Hart brings it all together in a blog-style collection of podcast episodes, observations, recommendations, and fresh perspectives offering something meaningful to discover, consider, and enjoy along the way.
IT’S ALL ABOUT PERSPECTIVE
Sometimes nothing is broken.
The lens is just clouded.
Assumptions blur intention.
Misunderstanding distorts behavior.
Patterns go unnoticed.
Clarity doesn’t add something new.
It removes what’s been in the way.
When you see clearly, you respond differently.
Relationships strengthen. Communication improves. Performance follows.
Not because anyone was fixed.
But because things finally make sense.
The shift begins with understanding & perspective
If you're ready to see your relationships more clearly, the next step is simple.
