Life just feels so much lighter
when you get along better
Guiding you from frustration to connection so life feels lighter!
Guiding you from frustration to connection so life feels lighter!
No matter how good or challenging your relationship, everyday annoyances and frustrations can quickly turn into resentments casting unnecessary heaviness and even disconnect.
We’ve all experienced this at home, at work and even within ourselves.
(I bet you are thinking of some right now)
But how do you find your way through?
Given common nuances are often passed off as “just part of life” and that’s true, they don’t have to cause such stress. You don’t have to leave work exhausted because your co-workers aren’t stepping up or come home to a house seemingly full of drama.
The truth is, most of us fall into the trap of wishing others would do things the way we would. Without realizing it, we expect sameness. But different doesn’t mean wrong, it just means we each have our own way of thinking, acting, and relating. Not to mention, expectations lead to disappointments. Once you understand these differences, the tension lifts and relationships feel not only lighter but more connected and productive.
When you feel lighter, you shine brighter.
Just follow these easy steps…
Continuum - Find out your unique order of the 34 traits we all use but use differently
Consultation - I provide a personalized depiction in person or via zoom of how you use each one best
Coaching - this is where the magic happens as we work together to apply your personal process in your every day life
Community - join other growth minded people who are coming together to explore the many ways we can all get along better with ourselves and others
Wouldn’t life be easier if someone could help you make sense of those everyday frustrations so the small things didn’t drain so much of your energy by walking with you as you step your way to stronger relationships?
What you need isn’t more effort or more patience, therapy or counseling but a clearer perspective and practical takeaways that actually work in real life.
What you need is a guide to show you the way - that’s where I come in.
Hi, I’m Elle Hart
Your guide to gaining insight, understanding and perspective of yourself and those around you, so the little things don’t wear you out or develop into something bigger. I help you turn tension into intention, and disconnection into appreciation, making it easier to get along better in every relationship.
For years, I tried to “be better” without ever really understanding what I needed or how I functioned. Once I discovered the power of strengths-based insight combined with emotional intelligence, that serve as the foundation for my Self Intelligence Principles, everything changed, not just for me, but for the people around me too.
That’s when I realized just how important the relationship we have with ourselves truly is because it sets the tone for every other connection in our lives.
Today, I help
~ individuals
~ couples
~ families
~ teams
in both their home and work life, strengthen their personal process and learn how to apply and implement it in real, everyday ways through
~ awareness
~ understanding
~ acceptance
~ embracement
~ management
~ empowerment
My work is compassionate, honest, deeply practical and tailored to YOU. Whether we’re meeting one-on-one, in a workshop, or through the SMW Collective, my intention is to help you feel more like yourself and more connected to the people who matter most.
Your Path to Feel Empowered Every Day
Getting along better doesn’t have to be heavy, complicated or time-consuming. I have created a simple path to get you where you want to be, powered by the Feel Empowered Every Day Self Intelligence Principles leading you to follow your own personal process in all that you do while respecting others for following theirs.
Keeping in mind, before you can get along better with others, you first need to get along better with yourself!
Together, we uncover how you naturally think, act, and relate and how that shapes the way you experience others.
1. Clarity
2. Connection
You’ll see how differences, once frustrating, can actually complement and strengthen your relationships.
3. Confidence
With direction that is easy to follow, you’ll feel lighter, more at ease, and more connected at home, at work, and most importantly within yourself.
“ You gave me the permission to be myself I didn’t even realize I needed.”
“ I appreciate how insightful you are in bringing my strengths to life for me.”
“This is the piece to the puzzle I have been missing.”
“I knew I needed to connect with you to do this, now I know why.”
“Everybody needs to do this, seriously!”
“I feel like I can breathe again, knowing my bottom strengths aren’t my weaknesses and it’s ok to release that pressure.”
“I had no idea how valuable this would be, you are a game-changer.”
“It is magical the way you don’t just define the theory, you bring MEANING by translating it into the behavior piece that is so important for relationships which is why I want you to work with our whole team.”
Here’s what clients have to say
Ways we can work together
No matter how well you get along, everyone can get along better. I offer simple options to bring more clarity, connection and confidence into your life and relationships.
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Get Along With Yourself
Clarity Consultation
What it is:
A one-on-one consultation where we uncover how you naturally think, act, and relate and how that shapes your experiences with others.You’ll walk away with:
A personalized strengths + perspective guide.
Practical ways to reduce frustration and feel lighter in daily life.
A clearer sense of your “compass” for decision-making and relationships.
Investment: $150 for 90 minutes
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Get Along at Home
Correlation Consultation
What it is:
Two individual consultations + one joint session, designed to uncover differences, reduce tension, and build mutual respect.
You’ll walk away with:
Individual guides + a shared “How We Work Best Together” roadmap.
Clear language for everyday conversations.
More peace and connection at home.
Investment: $425 for 2 people (add-ons available)
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Get Along at Work
Team Workshops
What it is:
Half-day workshops with ongoing support that help teams understand one another, reduce friction, and work with more flow.You’ll walk away with:
A team playbook that highlights strengths and collaboration styles.
Insights for leadership, communication, and performance.
Practical strategies to keep tension low and productivity high.
Investment: Custom Pricing
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Keep Getting Along
Apply & Implement
What it is:
Monthly or quarterly check-ins to keep insights alive and applicable. Ideal for individuals, couples, or teams who want steady guidance.
You’ll walk away with:
Continued perspective to handle new challenges.
Accountability to keep building connection.
Guidance with applying your personal process to your daily life and implementing Self Intelligence Principles
Investment: Custom Pricing
Important! All clients must have completed the CliftonStrengths Full 34 Assessment prior to our meeting.
You can purchase an access code with your consultation or provide your own results. $68
Picture leaving work without the weight of frustration on your shoulders.
Walking into your home and feeling calm instead of tense.
Facing challenges with clarity instead of confusion.
When you understand yourself and the people around you, the little things don’t fester into resentment. Instead, they become opportunities for connection. You spend less energy on annoyance and more energy on what truly matters, enjoying your work, strengthening your relationships, and feeling lighter in your everyday life.
This isn’t about changing who you are, it’s about discovering how to get along better, so life feels more balanced, more connected, and a lot less heavy.
SIP Cards → Quick perspective reminders, conversation starters or journal prompts
FEED Book → Get your copy of the Feel Empowered Every Day Bullet Journal an interactive guide
Empowered Gear → Daily reminders of your strengths
Stream with Hart → an ongoing “feed” of empowerment - like social media, but without the doom scroll, stress and sales pitches. It’s a private space filled with a variety of insights, perspectives, tips, resources, and links designed to help you get along better and feel more empowered every day. Hop on the email list to receive quick updates with the link reminder. There will be new posts daily so be sure to bookmark it as well.